“BLOOD” MAY BE THICKER THAN WATER…BUT GUESS WHAT???  BLOOD RELATIONS DON’T MEANT SHIT… TO GOD…WHEN A “WICKED” ASS RELATIVE IS TRYING TO HURT ONE OF HIS CHILDREN!!!

Pick…pick…pick…   That’s exactly what happens…when “blood” relatives try to harass, degrade & destroy the spirit of one of God’s children.    And why???                    Sh-i-i-i-i-i-t…  9 times out of 10, it’s due to jealousy & hate.    And, it don’t matter none, that the person who is being picked on is the sister…the brother…the daughter…the son…the grandson…the granddaughter…the niece…the nephew…the cousin…of the one who is doing the “picking.”  I hear about this kind of shit going on…ALL THE TIME.  You see…  Crazy IS…as crazy DOES.   Evil IS…as evil DOES.

Jesus told us a long time ago, you will know a tree by the fruit that it yields.   He puts it like this… “17 In the same way, every good tree bears good fruit, but the bad tree bears bad fruit. 18 A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit. 19 Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. 20 Thus you will know them by their fruits.” (Matthew 7:17-20)  O.k…

A “bad tree”…WILL…for no good reason, on a consistent basis…say mean things in an effort to hurt the feelings of another.   A “bad tree” that is a sibling…will try to point out & mock anything he/she sees negative about…his/her sibling…who IS a child of God.  Let’s call the “child of God” sibling “Ruth”…& let’s call the “bad tree” sibling “Michelle.”  And, let’s say that “Ruth” is 20 years old & let’s say that Michelle is 22 years old.   They have jobs but they are both still living at home with their parents. Here’s how this shit might break out…    Michelle and a friend are in the family room watching tv…talking about this…that…& the other.  The tv room is a shared room in the home and everyone comes and goes in this room…on the regular.  Ruth walks into the tv room because she hears voices.  As soon as Ruth steps into the room  Michelle…IMMEDIATELY…yells & spits out… “GET OUT OF HERE! GET OUT OF HERE! WE DON’T WANT YOU IN HERE WITH YOUR UGLY SELF!”  Now…  For the record, let’s say that Ruth is far from being ugly in any way…shape…or form.  It’s just the opposite.  The girl is simply beautiful.  And, in the eyes of most beholders, she is more beautiful than Michelle.   O.k…

Let’s examine what is probably going on in the heart of Michelle…towards Ruth.  O.k.   The fact that Michelle would SHOUT “GET OUT OF HERE!” because Ruth stepped into the room…can very easily indicate low patience…& low tolerance for even the presence of Ruth.   It’s a… “I don’t even want to look at your ass!”…type of response.   Michelle’s shouting…is overly dramatic & mean spirited.   It is meant to chastise & bully Ruth.   The YELLING…is an exaggerated response to someone entering a shared room in the home.   And…

To accentuate the fact that she doesn’t want to even look at Ruth…Michelle calls the her ugly.  She does this knowing damn well that the Ruth is not ugly.  And, to add humiliation to any hurt she caused Ruth…she spoke these mean & hateful words to Ruth…in front of someone else.  She really wanted to humiliate Ruth.   That shit is telling…in & of itself.   So…

Saying this mean thing…while knowing it’s not true, is just evil.  It is said to hurt Ruth & to make Ruth feel bad about herself.  So, why would Michelle…say such a mean & wicked…lie to her?  It is because Michelle is jealous of Ruth.  This beautiful girl that is called Ruth…probably has had many people tell her, in the presence of Michelle…how beautiful she is.   Now, in hearing this truth about Ruth…Michelle chose to see it as a slight against her.  In other words…   Ruth’s beauty…has become a thorn in the side of Michelle.  She sees it as taking away from her.   She has let…this truth about Ruth…lower her self-esteem.  Well…  Whether Michelle feels that she looks good…bad…or between, doesn’t have a got damn thing to do with Ruth.  Ruth had nothing to do with this.  However, Michelle’s negative actions toward Ruth…are meant to punish Ruth for looking the way that she does.    Michelle wants Ruth…to have the same low self-esteem that she has.  Know this…  Misery does LOVE company.  And, misery will take it anyway it can get it.  O.k…

Michelle’s behavior seems to reveal that she dislikes Ruth…in no small way.  And, if Michelle has engaged in this type of behavior towards Ruth over any length of time, it could be that she actually hates Ruth.  YES…HATE!  Jealousy…that brews in a pot of misery…is hell on wheels.  Dislike will grow into hate…in 2 hot seconds.  What I don’t understand is this…   Why is it sooooooo hard for people to see into the truth of this???  YES…EVEN WHEN THE TRUTH IS “YELLING” IN THEIR FACE!  Many people  have this misconception that just because someone is their blood relative…that the blood relative will automatically love them.  Tell that naive shit to the droves of women who’ve caught their boyfriends & husbands…in bed with their sisters…their cousins.  And… Do you think that it was LOVE that drove Cain to kill his brother…Abel???  HELL NO!!!  Now, let’s look back at this…

TRUE STORY:

The Bible tells us… “Now the man knew his wife Eve, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have produced[a] a man with the help of the Lord.” Next she bore his brother Abel. Now Abel was a keeper of sheep, and Cain a tiller of the ground. In the course of time Cain brought to the Lord an offering of the fruit of the ground, and Abel for his part brought of the firstlings of his flock, their fat portions. And the Lord had regard for Abel and his offering, but for Cain and his offering he had no regard. So Cain was very angry, and his countenance fell. The Lord said to Cain, “Why are you angry, and why has your countenance fallen? If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin is lurking at the door; its desire is for you, but you must master it.

Cain said to his brother Abel, “Let us go out to the field.”[b] And when they were in the field, Cain rose up against his brother Abel, and killed him. Then the Lord said to Cain, “Where is your brother Abel?” He said, “I do not know; am I my brother’s keeper?” 10 And the Lord said, “What have you done? Listen; your brother’s blood is crying out to me from the ground! 11 And now you are cursed from the ground, which has opened its mouth to receive your brother’s blood from your hand. 12 When you till the ground, it will no longer yield to you its strength; you will be a fugitive and a wanderer on the earth.” 13 Cain said to the Lord, “My punishment is greater than I can bear! 14 Today you have driven me away from the soil, and I shall be hidden from your face; I shall be a fugitive and a wanderer on the earth, and anyone who meets me may kill me.” 15 Then the Lord said to him, “Not so![c] Whoever kills Cain will suffer a sevenfold vengeance.” And the Lord put a mark on Cain, so that no one who came upon him would kill him. 16 Then Cain went away from the presence of the Lord, and settled in the land of Nod,[d] east of Eden.”  (Genesis 4:1-16)  O.k…

Do you see why God did not favor Cain???  God clearly tells us.  Again, He said… “If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin is lurking at the door; its desire is for you, but you must master it.”  In other words, God is saying this…   “If you get your act together & STOP doing evil & STOP being evil… “do well”…I will accept you.” But, instead of taking heed to what God tells him to do…& instead of getting his shit in order, Cain…chooses darkness…& murders his brother.  O.k…

People…& NOT God…are confused about how human beings can act…regardless of their blood relationships.  Human beings…whether its your grandmother, granddad, mother, dad, sister, brother, aunt, uncle, cousin, niece, nephew…can be wicked as hell.  They can throw you under a bus…at the drop of a dime, if they are predisposed to do so.  And, I mean a big ass bus.  The fact that you have the same blood running through your blood, as someone else…DOES NOT…mean that your blood relative will be Christ like.  It…DOES NOT…mean that they will treat you lovingly & with kindness.  And, to think any other way…is to think pollyannaish…& to think naively.   A naiveté that can be very dangerous & deadly.  O.k…

Jesus let’s us know clearly that “blood” is not determinative…about who is family…in the eyes of God.  What???  Yes…   Jesus tells us that for Him…His family members are not determined by blood.   The Bible explains Jesus’ view like this… “46 While he was still speaking to the crowds, his mother and his brothers were standing outside, wanting to speak to him. 47 Someone told him, “Look, your mother and your brothers are standing outside, wanting to speak to you.”[a] 48 But to the one who had told him this, Jesus[b] replied, “Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?” 49 And pointing to his disciples, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers! 50 For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.” (Matthew 12:46-50)  So…

God does not let the “blood” of someone…make Him lose sight of what is important.  God looks at a person’s behavior in determining who His family members are.  In other words…  Are you a “bad tree”…or a “good tree?”  And, for Him…to be a “good tree”…you must be following Him.   You must do the will of the Father in order to be in His family of “good trees.”  Why???  Because God is not going to deal with…& favor…those who are out here acting like evil ass devils.   And…

He wonders why…His children…are not following His lead.  Why do we repeatedly expose ourselves to evil ass “blood” relatives…who mean us nothing but harm???  You see…    God understands that consistently, speaking negative & hateful words towards another is nothing but, speaking…death into that person’s spirit.   So, if a family member…is harassing, belittling, maligning & degrading you…this shit needs to be dealt with.   Let these devilish minions know that you know what they are about & what they are up to.   More importantly, you cannot keep exposing yourself to these devilish ass people.  You cannot keep laughing it off on the outside…while it is tearing you apart on the inside.    At some point, you need to stand up righteously & leave these people alone.  In other words…  You need literally need to leave “that hell”…alone.   Why would you keep given these people the opportunity to use you as a punching bag…or a doormat to wipe their dirty ass feet on???

So…

If you are putting up with this kind of shit from so called “family” members, you need to follow Jesus’ example.  You need to separate yourself from evil ones regardless of any blood relationship.  Jesus says…   You need to have a… “true” family…that consist of those “who do the will of God.”  You need to be around people who love you & not hate you.   You need to be around people who lift you up & not tear you down.  These uplifting spirits will bring the “light” of God into your life.

And guess what else???

In the sight of God…He hates that these devilish asses are harassing, belittling, maligning & degrading His children.   For Him…it’s NOT cute.   And, it damn sure ain’t funny.    To Him…   It is pure EVIL.  It is pure WICKEDNESS.  PERIOD!

Iris R. Whiting ©

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